hi, well i have met this man who doesn't seem gay at all, the way he dresses, speaks and the people he hangs round with. he flirted with me from 9pm-1am only talking me even though we were with 6 other people with us. he bought all my drinks, told me i had the most beautiful eyes he'd ever seen. he kept offering me cigarettes so i would go outside with him. i don't smoke so didn't go with him but he kept knocking on the window from outside and waving and showing off doing stupid things. when we spoke he would not break eye contact with me, and when i wasnt talking to him i could feel him staring at me. he would talk about his sports car and show me pictures of it on his phone, i felt like he was showing off to me. at the end of the night he offered me to go in his taxi to drop me off and he paid. all his friends are straight men too which isn't steriotypically gay. however, this other man who likes me and has asked me out told me he was gay 2 nights before i had actually started speaking to him properly. then when me and the supposedly gay one were still talking another man who is friends with the man who has asked me out came over and said 'has she converted you then to being straight' and the 'gay' guy said yes she has in a jokey way. (the man who likes me and his friend who said 'has she converted you' had been glaring at the 'gay' man all night too) however he didn't deny being gay and everyone just laughed. i said are you gay (jokingly) and he was laughing and was like 'yes' but you've converted me. is he gay or not i'm really confused. all help and answers will be appreicated. thankyou xxxx