this is an awkward question but im curious. i have been physically intimate with one guy(were together for a year and a half) and he still means everything to me, but we broke up a few months ago. i promised myself i would wait untill marriage to have sex again and i intend on keeping that promise. i have a new boyfriend, and my hormones are crazy obviously, its kind of life. over time does it get easier to remain abstinant? what are ways to make yourself not want it(other than m*sterbation)?