i want some longer hair, but whenever i make it long it always looks like it is dried up and kind of sitcks out (its like if you took a baloon and rubed it against your hair, how your hair sticks to it, mine kinda does that. I don't know what you call it friz or something) how would you stop it so it looks more wet and healthy, btw im a guy i know its a gay question but whatever i need to know