I am gay and my female friend and I were on the subject of penis size. So we agreed that a penis that is long but not big in the girth area is not a big penis, but we could not agree if a penis that is avg length but fat (like 6 in circumference) is big or not. She says it is but I say its not since to be big it has to be big in both areas not just one. What do you girls think??