[ Fashion & Accessories ] Open Question : I just stretched my ears but the jewelry is falling out?

I stretched my ears on saturday and it is now monday, but now the tapers are already falling out like the hole is too big for them. and i know i shouldnt have tapers but i only stretched to a 14g and thats really small. Next i want to stretch to a 12g can i do it already? and is the hole to big?