I dont know if this is some sort of a disorder or not. But if someone yells at me, calls me names and tells me to do something I won't do it. No matter what I won't do it.. Now the person can take the next step of hurting me, beating me to death or whatever in the world I will get injured, hurt or killed but I still won't do it. My husband tells me that is not good and that this attitude of mine will make me a failure in life. I told him "This is a disorder I have and I cannot change it." Somehow this attitude of mine is ruining something very important in our lives but i can't help it.. I won't do if someone comes to me yelling, calling me names. I just won't do it. Why is that so?