I have known this guy for 8 years now for about 5 of those we have had an on off relationship. The last time we broke up seemed at the time to be final and we didn't see each other for about 9 months. Now AGAIN like all the times before we somehow end up bumping into each other. This time when we seen each other it was weird, I immediately felt the old spark there but it was just a normal hey how are you? conversation. That was until I got home and he text me and asked me if we could meet up. I decided just to go because why not? It ended up we chatted for hours and he told me he was gutted the last time it didn't work out and that he still loves me and always will. I said I needed time to take it all in as it was abit of a shock. So after alot of thinking etc I decided we should see where it goes because if im honest, I am completely in love with the guy. The next time we met up he decides to tell me then that he has a girlfriend who he lives with but meant everything he said! I was totally taken aback and left without saying how I felt! Now I cant get him out of my head. I want to know what people who know neither of us think about it, is he just messing with my head and getting a kick out of it? Or is he just like me and totally confused as to what to do?